Christine McGuinness, the ex-wife of TV presenter Paddy McGuinness, has publicly discussed her desire for a lifelong partner and her evolving understanding of her sexuality.

Search for a 'Wife'

Three years following her divorce from Paddy McGuinness, the 38-year-old mother of three revealed her longing to find a 'wife' during a candid conversation on the LGBTQ+ podcast It Started With A Kiss. She clarified this desire isn't about legal marriage, but rather a celebration of love and commitment.

Identifying as a 'Five-Star Lesbian'

Christine identifies as a 'five-star lesbian,' a term she playfully uses to describe her experiences. She explained the distinction from 'gold-star lesbians,' who have never been with men. The conversation with queer icons Amy Spalding and Gareth Valentino covered her dating preferences and personal experiences.

Balancing Life and Relationships

McGuinness described maintaining a 'double life,' balancing her family life in the north with her independent lifestyle in London. She enjoys the separation, allowing her to work and socialize without the pressures of domestic responsibilities.

Navigating Boundaries

She acknowledged this approach can create complications in relationships, as partners may desire a deeper integration into her family life. Christine emphasized her commitment to being upfront about her boundaries from the outset, ensuring potential partners understand her priorities.

Exploring Sexuality and Shibari

Christine shared she has no desire for more children, recognizing a potential mismatch with many women she dates who may be looking to start families. She also discussed her exploration of Shibari, a Japanese art form involving intricate rope bondage.

Intimate Experiences

She recounted a memorable encounter with a masculine-presenting woman where she took the dominant role, surprising both herself and her partner. Christine also shared her involvement with adult content on the platform Subs, where she explores Shibari, emphasizing the trust and emotional connection inherent in the practice.

A Journey of Self-Discovery

Reflecting on her life since leaving Paddy, Christine described her first kiss with a woman as a tender and feminine moment that significantly impacted her understanding of her sexuality. She remains open about her desires and experiences, embracing her identity while navigating the complexities of modern dating and relationships.