Actress Sophia Bush and former soccer star Ashlyn Harris wed during a private summer 2025 event in Upstate New York. The intimate nuptials, which included Harris's two children, were detailed in excerpts from Bush's upcoming memoir.
The "wife" label and the Oct. 27 memoir release
Bush expressed a desire to move past the term "partner" during public appearances. According to the report, the actress found it "amazing" to finally refer to Harris as her wife. This shift in language is a central theme in her upcoming memoir, And I Will Tell You Mine: Notes from a Life in Progress, which is scheduled for release on October 27 .
The memoir, which saw excerpts published by Vogue, describes the wedding as a moment of "pure joy" set against a backyard sunset. Bush uses the text to reflect on the "invisible string" that connected the couple, emphasizing a desire to keep their most sacred moments for themselves rather than for public dissection. Harris emphasized that the visibility of their relationship is about more than just their own bond; it is about creating space for LGBTQ+ youth who may not feel seen. This advocacy is a long-standing pillar for both Bush and Harris.
Black velvet, gold flecks, and a backyard in Upstate New York
The wedding ceremony took place on a property in Upstate New York, characterized by a relaxed, "pressure-free" atmosphere. Harris noted that the event was dessigned to be easy for her children, Sloane, 5, and Ocean, 4, who were able to participate by picking flowers from the property. Bush opted for a non-traditional look, wearing a black velvet dress with gold flecks that she had previously worn years ago.
The wedding preparations were aided by Bush's friend, Nia, who was ordained to perform the ceremony. The planning was described as "wholesome," even as it coincided with a trip to the state fair. Instead of a high-production gala, the couple spent their wedding night roasting marshmallows as a family, prioritizing connection over spectacle.
A 60-year legacy of red lipstick and sepia-toned film
The emotional foundation of the marriage is deeply tied to the history of Harris's grandparents. Harris shared stories of her grandparents, who met at age fifteen and remained together for over sixty years, as a "lighthouse" for her own life. Bush wrote in her memoir that it was impossible for her heart not to be changed by Harris's perspective on this enduring love.
This legacy of devotion provided a sense of "home" for Harris, who had spent much of her life striving for excellence in the professional soccer world before her retirement in November 2022. This follows a period of significant transition for the athlete, whose former USWNT teammate and ex-wife, Ali Krieger,also recently concluded her professional career. The transition from the high-stakes world of professional sports to this quiet domesticity marks a significant new chapter for Harris.
The timeline between the City Hall filing and the farm ceremony
While the Upstate New York event was the emotional centerpiece, the couple's legal union appears to have begun with a spontaneous trip to City Hall. The report indicates that after much deliberation, the pair walked into the municipal building just a few days before the larger family gathering in the countryside.
One question remains regarding the specific sequence of these events: was the City Hall visit the official legal marriage, or was the Upstate New York ceremony a separate religious or symbolic rite? Additionally, while the couple visited friends and family across the country to share the news, the specific locations and full extent of these post-wedding travels remain unconfirmed .
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