Jamie-Lynn Sigler Reveals Financial Betrayal and Regret Over First Marriage in New Memoir Jamie-Lynn Sigler reflects on her first marriage to AJ Discala, calling it a 'big mistake' and revealing financial discrepancies in her new memoir. The Sopranos actress discusses the challenges of their relationship, the support of her co-stars, and her journey toward acceptance and healing. Jamie-Lynn Sigler has opened up about her tumultuous first marriage to AJ Discala, describing it as a 'big mistake' and hinting at financial exploitation. The former Sopranos star, who was just 20 when she married Discala in 2003, initially saw him as a lifeline during a vulnerable period in her life. However, she soon realized their relationship was deeply flawed, leading to a divorce just two years later. In her new memoir, And So It Is... A Memoir of Acceptance and Hope, Sigler reveals that she was financially entangled with Discala in ways she didn’t fully understand. A forensic accountant later discovered that a six-figure sum had gone missing from their joint account, transferred to an account she had no access to.Despite the financial betrayal, Sigler has chosen to move on, stating that she no longer cares about the lost money and wants to close that chapter of her life forever. The actress also reflected on her early relationship with Discala, who was 10 years her senior. She described him as charismatic and confident, someone who could easily connect with people.However, their relationship took a turn when he made an inappropriate advance, marking the beginning of a complicated dynamic. Sigler admitted that some of her Sopranos co-stars, including the late James Gandolfini, disapproved of the relationship, with Gandolfini notably absent from her wedding. She speculated that Gandolfini may have had reservations about the union but acknowledged that she would never know his true reasons.Before their marriage, Sigler discovered messages between Discala and his ex on his phone, leading to a heated confrontation. She recounted firing him as her financial manager and ending their relationship in a single outburst, though they later reconciled and married. Despite the pain and financial loss, Sigler’s memoir serves as a journey of self-discovery and acceptance, highlighting her growth and resilience in the face of adversity