The Violent Attacks

Chloe's peaceful nights were often interrupted by violent attacks from her younger sister, Louisa, who is severely autistic. Waking up to blows and kicks, Chloe, then 12, would defend herself but never fight back. The attacks left her with cuts and bruises, a reality far rmeoved from the idyllic childhood she could have had.

One particularly distressing incident occurred when their mother was eight months pregnant with their youngest sister. Louisa caused £8,000 worth of damage, kicking and pushing their mother, and smashing various items.. Thankfully, the unborn baby was unharmed, but it was a worrying episode.

The Struggle for Help

Chloe's mother tirelessly pushed social services and CAMHS for a diagnosis and support for Louisa. however, despite the severity of Louisa's behavior , she was often dismissed as a 'naughty child' who would grow out of it. it took years to finally get a diagnosis of autism and dyslexia.

Medication was never suggested initially, as the National Institute for Health and Care Excellence (NICE) considers it a 'last resort' after environmental adjustments and behavioral therapies have been tried first.

The Impact on the Family

Chloe's upbringing was marked by fear and helplessness. She felt guilty for not being able to do more to protect her mother, who was often left black and blue from Louisa's attacks. Chloe also felt responsible for keeping her friendds safe from Louisa's outbursts.

Despite the challenges, Chloe's family remained resilient. Her mother met a supportive stepfather, and Chloe found solace in her teaching career, which helped her understand and accept Louisa's behavior.

The Prevalence of Violent Behavior in Autism

Chloe's experiences are not unique. Statistics show that as many as 20% of those with autism exhibit violeent behavior. Understanding this prevalence has helped Chloe make peace with their childhood.