Gareth Brisbane, the widower of Australian psychologist and dating expert Mel Schilling, has shared details about the family’s private funeral following her death at the age of 54 after battling cancer. Mel is survived by Gareth and their ten-year-old daughter, Maddie.

Intimate Funeral and Heartfelt Tribute

The intimate ceremony was held on April 9th and live-streamed to family members in Australia. A particularly moving moment was Maddie’s heartfelt speech, which Gareth described as a source of immense pride, echoing her mother’s spirit.

Honoring Mel's Final Wishes

Following the funeral, the family honored Mel’s wish by scattering her ashes at the lighthouse in Gareth’s hometown of Whitehead, Northern Ireland. Gareth spoke of Whitehead as a place Mel cherished, a welcoming community where kindness prevailed, and a location they both loved during their fifteen years together.

A New Chapter in Bali

The family is now preparing to relocate to Bali, a place they all loved and where they have a strong network of friends. A blessing ceremony was held for Mel at their new villa in Bali last weekend, offering comfort during this difficult time.

Mel's Cancer Journey

Mel’s cancer journey began with a colon cancer diagnosis in 2023. Initial treatment, including tumor removal, was successful, but the cancer metastasized to her lungs in February 2024 and to her brain by Christmas 2023.

A Lasting Legacy

Gareth recalled a final, whispered message from Mel, demonstrating her enduring love and concern for Maddie and himself. He described her as an incredible mother, role model, and soulmate, beyond her television personality.

The family has expressed gratitude for the outpouring of support from around the world.