Actor Joe Manganiello revealed he has not been in contact with ex-wife Sofia Vergara since their divorce was finalized earlier this year. Speaking on SiriusXM, the 49-year-old actor detailed how a seven-year autoimmune health battle and disagreements over children contributed to the end of their marriage.

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A seven-year autoimmune battle following the 2015 wedding

Joe Manganiello’s recent comments on SiriusXM paint a picture of a marriage strained by an invisible illness . According to his memoir, the actor began experiencing symptoms of an unknown autoimmune condition shortly after his wedding to Sofia Vergara in 2015. He described these conditions as a "dumping ground" for things people do not understand, suggesting that the physical and emotional toll of the illness was a significant, yet perhaps misunderstood, factor in the couple's eventual separation.

The actor's attempt to use his memoir to support those suffering in silence highlights a deeper struggle with generational trauma and the isolation of chronic illness. As Manganiello detailed during his SiriusXM appearance, he hopes his story helps family members who feel they cannot talk about the embarrassment or difficulty of supporting a loved one with such conditions.

The disagreement over 'old motherhood' and childbearing

While Manganiello focuses on his health, Sofia Vergara has previously offered a different reason for the end of their seven-year marriage. As reported in an interview with People, Vergara cited a fundamental disagreement regarding having children as the primary catalyst for the split in January 2024. Having had a son at the age of 19, Vergara expressed a desire to be a grandmother rather than an "old mom," stating she felt it would not be fair to a child to have her at a later stage in life.

This divergence in life goals creates a stark contrast to Manganiello's narrative. While Vergara focuses on the timing of motherhood, Manganiello has claimed that his health battle created emotional distance, even alleging that Vergara would not hug him during his periods of illness.

Social media shade and the 'narcissistic man' post

The public rift between the former couple has been exacerbated by subtle digital exchanges. Manganiello recently addressed tension arising from a social media post involving Vergara's son, which touched upon the experience of dealing with a "narcissistic man." Manganiello noted that Vergara appeared to suppport the post by "liking" it, adding a layer of public scrutiny to their private dissolution.

Vergara’s silence regarding the memoir's claims

Despite the detailed revelations in Manganiello's book and his recent SiriusXM interview, several questions remain unanswered. Sofia Vergara has not publicly addressed the specific claims Manganiello made regarding his health struggles or the alleged lack of physical affection during his illness . it remains unclear whether these claims are a matter of perspective or if there is a deeper , unverified conflict regarding how they supported one another during those seven years. Furthermore, the extent to which the "narcissistic" social media interaction reflects their actual post-divorce relationship remains speculative.